This video is all about how to stand out from other women. It's a very simple concept and 99% of men get turned on when you act like this. When everyone is going up, you go down. When everyone is high energy, you're low energy.
When you like someone, you have a certain way of behaving and when you don't, you also have a certain way of behaving. Women have a certain way of acting and a lot of women think they're different. Even though they are different, they're not that different. Why? It's because when you like someone, there's a certain similar way of acting--you act similar to everyone.
When you're not in love with somebody, you're yourself, you're unique and so you stand out. When you like someone, your uniqueness fades away and you act like every other girl. In fact, to him, he says to himself, "here goes another one".--but to you, you're like "here comes special me". The reason why you don't see what he sees is that you think you're being yourself.
When you see a whole bunch of people moving and there's one person that's not moving, who are you gonna focus on? On the person who's not moving. It's kind of like, even though everyone's moving trying to get attention, the fact that you're standing still, people will focus on and zero in on you. It's the same thing when a woman likes a guy, a guy sees that same girl every day. When a woman likes a guy, it's pretty much almost like the same woman but with a different face. She acts the same way, talks the same way and reacts the same way. You think you're different but in reality, you're looking like every other woman.
It's not about you being different. You got to realize that when it comes to this, you're not really changing who you are. You're just changing the intensity or the dose. Like only giving one hit of weed and not giving the whole blunt. The way to do that is to literally reduce what you communicate. If the intensity of your communication is at a midnight blue, tone it down to a baby blue. Control yourself and give him space. Realize how you behave when you're in love and go against that current.
When you're with a guy you really like, what you got to do is give him enough distance. Give him more space than necessary. You got to get him to the point where he's asking himself why you're so distant--not that you're emotionally distant but physically distant. Give him space, respect his time, encourage him to be on his own and do his thing--this will make him think if you're losing interest and inadvertently pushes him towards you.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.