Here are 10 ways to ruin your first date with a high-value man and scare him away. We're re-doing this video because the last time, I didn't explain myself too well. I'm going to change things around because again, there's something that I said and wish I could explain it a little bit better. So here goes.
Being late on a date. You got to show respect. Anytime a woman is excessively late on a date, that means she wasn't interested. Think about it, when you're late to something, it's because you didn't want to be there and you were kind of bored and is forced to go there, right? A high-value guy might think you're playing games when you're lat and he might pull away.
Having a sense of entitlement on a date. Be polite.
Talking about politics. Politics is not something you wanna talk about or bring up because the negative energy that you feel when you argue with someone is not fun.
Texting on a date. You got to put your phone down. Do not text on a date. He might notice that you're always on your phone when you see him but when you're not with him, you take time to respond. He might think you're playing games. Show him that you're not on your phone a lot. When you're with him, put your phone away and don't text.
Judging him about his habits that he talks with you about. This deserves no explanation. If a guy is talking to you about how he drinks a lot, don't refer him to AA or don't give him therapy. Just talk, don't judge and don't bring solutions and shit. You don't want to be Miss Fix it All because it might turn him off. Make him feel like he could be himself around you.
Planning the second date on the first date. This is the biggest sign of neediness ever. Let him bring up where you guys will meet next week.
Telling him about your ex. Guys don't want to know or hear about your ex. It tells them that you're not over your ex if you keep bringing it up.
Not trying to dress nice. Look, ladies, don't be looking like bums in a date. Dress nicely because if you don't then that means you have no interest in the guy.
Explaining why you don't want to go home with him. Don't condescend him and just say no or just say that you don't want to. Don't be giving explanations because then, you're misleading people. Just say no. There's no need to explain and there's no need to give him a poetic reason why just so you don't hurt his feelings. You don't need to explain yourself.
Friend zoning guys. Don't friendzone a dude who's a high value. He's not gonna stick with that. Friend zoning dudes just bring bad vibes to your life because you don't have genuine energy around you.
Ladies, we're talking about high-value guys. These are the guys who have options--like the 5-10% of guys. You see, these high-value guys are fickle, they get turned off easily. High-value guys are petty so it is what it is.
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