Yesterday, I made a magnificent video about whether or not guys should take women on coffee dates or tea dates and for some reason, women had a tough time with the concept that you got to build that up. You get your dinner on the second or third date but on the first date, we are gonna find who you are. Guys have to have a way to have a first preliminary talk with you and whether or not you are who you are and on the second date, we're gonna take you on dinner.
We're gonna review SheRaSeven's video "Coffee First Date Are No No". I'm gonna give you guys my take. What's disgusting about this is some women feel like they are entitled to get dinner dates on the first date. Guys are not entitled to sex on the first date but I always tell guys to go for it but they're not entitled to have sex with you on the first date. I even tell guys to not get turned off because a girl didn't have sex with him on the first date, that's immature.
Men are not entitled to have sex with women on the first, second or even third date. They're not entitled to it but they should go for it. The same way you're not entitled to get dinner or a movie on the first date, you should go for it but don't feel entitled to it.
I get it that you want someone to pay your bills and SheRaSeven, you're a very independent woman but I hope you're telling women to be independent. If you watch my channel, I tell guys to dick women but I also tell them to be okay when a woman doesn't want to give them what they want and walk away. Don't just assume, "Oh you're a broke nigga", it sounds childish. Just because I don't want to buy you dinner, you call me "broke"?
It's not a negative thing, it's just your standards. The problem that I have is when you think that just because a guy doesn't wanna do that, he doesn't like you or that he's broke. It's stupid. I always tell guys to not go on dates with women when they're broke. Don't go to dates with women when you're broke because you got better things to focus on but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try for it though.
The thing is, I think SheRa helps women avoid those kinds of guys and I get it, I 100% agree. I tell those guys to get on your purpose and I could promise you that the women who're watching this who came from her channel will ignore what I just said.
Sometimes, the direct route is the wrong route because it looks so obvious. Sometimes, when you're so straightforward about what you want, you don't get what you want. You got to be a little bit more sneaky. My problem is that women are literally exaggerating her advice. Some of you ladies are not patient, you got to be patient. Some of you ladies are sounding butthurt just because a guy doesn't want to take you to dinner. He doesn't want to take you to dinner, you don't need to insult the dude. That hurts you because you are butthurt.
Guys get played for dinner a lot, ladies, and they're very insecure about that. I have money but just because I have the money, I'm not gonna spend it on you because I know that women just want dinner sometimes. So I test them and wait for the second date to give them dinner if I want to. You could leave if you want.