So yesterday I showed you guys how to overcome approach anxiety but apparently, some of you guys don't need it so let me show you the proper approach instead. This one is about the opener. It's when you see the girl and you go up to her.
First of all, I recommend not approaching women in the dark. Be polite and be a gentleman if they reject you, let them leave. Now, the opener is this:
"Excuse me, I saw you and I couldn't let you go without me saying hi. So, I'm Dalexis, what's your name?"
"Excuse me, I saw you walking and you think I'm gonna let you go without saying hi? Absolutely not. I'm Dalaxis, nice to meet you."
or something along the lines of
"Excuse me, do you think I was gonna let you go without saying hi? Absolutely not. I'm Dalexis, nice to meet you."
It's very chill and there's like swag to you. This opener always works when they stop. When I say it works, it means that you never feel like shit. I don't know why every time I do this, it feels good--even though they reject you, it feels good but this opener is the bomb to me. It'll definitely get her to open up.
Now a transition to that is saying "Hmm you kind of surprised me." and then doing a cold read. This will get her to correct you and then you say "so what are you up to right now?" just to find out if she's in a rush and then you just go from there.
That's the game plan, you just got to do it. I know it sounds easy, the thing is, you just have to do it. Most people just don't do it. The problem is not how difficult it is to apply but because you just forget. The moment could be so crazy that when it's done and she leaves, you'll be like "oh fuck, I forgot to use that opener". The real key is just remembering to do it.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course... click here.