It's funny how it works when people act all confident until it's time to pay up and until it's time to really put your money where your mouth is. That's what we're going to talk about today and this is a very important video that I want you guys to really listen to. Treat her like China treats the NBA and she'll always be crawling back to you. As crazy as China might be looking like, they're employing a lot of Machiavellian strategies of war--it's brilliant in a weird way. Machiavelli was a kind of dude that if you were a successful cruel dictator, he wanted to learn from you.
You guys will have to apply this when it comes to life. I don't want you guys to be like the USA, don't be like America--always giving out your attention, always trying to impress, always trying to get people to like you because of how good you are--you got to be like China in that regards, you don't go to them, they'll come to you.
The first thing is this, what you have to develop in order to apply the China Method, the most important thing is having a reputation of somebody who's willing to walk away. When people approach China for business, they know they're sensitive and is willing to leave. By having the reputation of being somebody who's willing to walk away, it gives you negotiating power and an extra authority.
The first thing is to do this by your presence, be masculine and have a masculine frame. This really shows people that you're willing to walk away. The second thing is talking about your last relationship and how you ended it. Talk about how you lost interest. Just saying that, if she likes you, will bring fear in her heart. Don't be afraid to sound a little cruel when it comes to that. The third thing is actually walking away.
Once you have a strong reputation, you got to let them come to you first and be willing to lose them. You want her to make an effort as much as possible, to do this, you got to have an air of coldness to your character when you're with her. Also, text her once a week and once every 4 dates you cancel--just by literally doing this, you're creating space so she can fill in the gaps to see you. You're only communicating with them enough to keep their interest high but not enough to fully satisfy them. Keep them on that limbo where they can bridge the gap if they make some effort.
What China has is their audience and what you have are your presence, validation and her fantasies. Some women, they see you and they already have in their minds what they want. What you got to do is find out what does she want and say it.
Once a woman likes you, she will still want to show that she has standards but most of the time, these women, they end up crumbling. After 1 or 2 months, start to pull away slowly by cancelling dates from time to time. You may feel like you're sabotaging yourself if you like her, NO, don't trust that feeling.
China is different though, what China does is break up with you. China finds something to fight about and then exaggerates it. You can do this too, find a reason to pull away like when she takes 30 or 40 minutes to be on a date and she's late, what you do then is tell yourself it's your time to pull away and then you exaggerate.
You got to have that China mentality where you're strong and willing to lose her. What you'll really notice is that China doesn't give a fuck and that's what you got to be. You got to value self-respect over pussy, that's what I'm trying to say. You got to have strong standards and never apologize. You got to build that reputation that China has because the NBA is bending their knees to China.
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