The only factor that would hinder a dating coach from being good consistently is the changing of times and how dating changes according to technology.
The dating culture, especially now, changes at a rapid pace. That leads to changes in people’s psychology - the way that they choose, the way that they feel about themselves, etc. That will have trickling effects.
If you were in a relationship for 10 years and then came back, you're going to see a whole new world.
When you're married, you're not thinking of ways to improve your skills. Your creative muscles to understand people become atrophied.
When you're single, you encounter more struggles. You encounter more obstacles. There isn't that stability. You have a lot of coaches who are out of touch due to being in a relationship.
Struggles when you're dating forces you to become creative. People would say that I'm a dating coach, but I'm single. My definition of single is different from other people's definition of single.
You have to be out there. New things come out and if you're not single, you're not going to have that motivation to learn them. Since I'm single I need to learn everything. That's how I'm able to pass information to you guys.
I'm always experimenting with my game. That experimentation helped me come up with new material. If I was married, it wouldn't be the same.
There have been several times when I came up with new material after a breakup or when a girl did something. I wrote it down and sold it. That all came from dating.
There may be this balance when you may want to be in a relationship from time to time. The thing with being single though is it exposes you to a lot of your weaknesses since you’re meeting new people. If they don't like you, they’ll leave you.
Now, that doesn't happen to me anymore. Women are now profusely chasing me. I became less or tolerant of b*******. That has a paradoxical effect on people.
It's much better for a coach to be single. You’ll have more need to be creative.
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