Today, I will be explaining to you why it is that the guys you don't like will chase you, but the guys you like, you chase. It's very fascinating. What I noticed is that when I'm doing an immersive activity and then I text someone, I tend to not ask follow-up questions.
When you're talking to a person that you don't like, you can't wait for the conversation to end. The crazy thing is that the person feels that. The problem is replicating that because when you like a person your emotion prevents you from going the other way.
When you're chatting with someone on the phone, what you do is not just reply to their questions. You should also ask them back. This way, you don't appear disinterested and you don't risk losing them. However, when you only reply to questions, it's the perfect way for a guy to prove himself to you.
When I'm busy and don't answer girls that much, it makes them ask more follow-up questions. I'm surprised because I've never seen this before. Usually, I would reply and ask a question back. Since I don't ask a question, they're literally showing how much they like me.
Not all women do this, but that's a good thing. I want to focus only on women who are really interested in me.
The point is that you have to be a bit difficult. When you like a guy, try to text him less. Don't tolerate a guy who gives you less traction. Don't tolerate a guy who's making you second guess yourself.
When you like the guy, you have to do less.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.