We're going to talk about what to do when you find yourself in a triangle of love. This video is based on the show 'The Bachelorette' which I love.
When you're in a love triangle as a guy, you're in a weaker position because you have to qualify yourself. When this happens to you, your best solution is to opt out. Nothing will make the other person look less significant than you walking out. Naturally, your value will go up when you do this.
Being willing to not engage with someone is one of the most powerful things you could have. It irks their ego.
Her power is in uncertainty. You will naturally become more emotional and more receptive. What Luke S. did was leave with his dignity. That transcends getting the woman. Dignity is something a lot of guys lack in the dating world.
When you're in a love triangle, the more aggressive guy will try to break the rules to get what he wants. You have a choice to either engage in the aggression or to completely disengage.
Most people engage because your ego hates not doing anything. The ego loves to see action. Sometimes, less is more.
When you make the decision to leave, you take her power away.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.