I see a lot of women who end up alone and it is a very depressing thing. What I noticed is they all have very the same characteristics and it wasn’t because of their looks. It was because of certain personality traits they had that if they focused on improving when they were young or even at that age would prevent them from ending up alone as they grow up.
The first sign is always treating themselves as victims. With anything that happened in your life, either good or bad, and you always see yourself as the center, that will cause a lot of conflicts in a relationship. Everything becomes a personal attack to you, you worry yourself a lot, everything has an ulterior motive. Now, in order for you to negate that trait, what you need to is empower yourself, begin meditating and stop seeing yourself as the victim.
Second is lack of gratitude. Whenever you lack gratitude, you will always focus on the negative and people will resent you for that. Now if you have gratitude, everyone will appreciate you and love you. Even if you don’t end up with someone, it will even help develop the proper mentality for you to stay sane because you are grateful.
Last thing is the inability to be alone. In order to feel at ease at being alone is to be present and meditate. Being alone is what meditation is, and being alone can be painful but being alone and listening to your thoughts and emotions can be helpful. When you learn to be alone, you will learn to love yourself and if you love yourself it will attract other people to be around you.
If you can’t be alone with yourself, a guy can’t be alone with you.
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