The first thing about a high-value female mindset is you have to be willing to walk away. If you're not, then you're needy. If you're dependent on your man financially or for security then you have a problem. When someone feels that you depend on them, you'll see a different side to them. Your reaction to his reaction to your neediness is even more neediness. If you are not in a position to walk away, start planning to walk away.
Value self-respect over a relationship.
The next thing is you create. A loser is somebody who consumes. It's somebody who is always on the phone - somebody who is always playing.
Practice something you enjoy so that you can be good at something. You will then have a skill that adds on to your activities. Watch my videos on how to find your purpose so you can understand this on a higher level. The point is you don't want to be just a consumer. You want to be high-value.
Start young. Not only will you build your skill set but you also get the chance to meet new people. Just get good at something. You'll have one more thing that your man can brag about.
Make sure it's something that you like so you don't end up doing it only for other people.
Be aware of where you stand. Know your flaws. You know if you're not good looking. You know where you are from 1 to 10 and you're ok with it. It's not just about being pretty. High-value means not being that attractive but still ok with it. If you only base your confidence on your looks, you can easily lose it when you grow older.
Learn to embrace your dark side. Accept the negative qualities that you have. I have a lot of flaws. Insecurity is when you try to hide those flaws. Confidence isn't not having flaws. It's accepting your flaws.
Knowing who you are means knowing the kind of guys you can and can't get. With this knowledge, when a guy rejects you, it doesn't hurt as much.
The next thing is that being high value doesn't mean controlling a man completely. It's giving him the illusion of control. When you do this, your guy acts more masculine. He will stop acting like a little bitch which is what you want.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.