I learned this in an extremely real way when I was in Mexico getting rehab for my knee. The less attention you pay to women, the more they want you and it’s unfortunate that this is how we got to go things.
For the two weeks that I was in Mexico using Tinder, I felt like women were conspiring against me. I got flaked a lot of times and I was so pissed off since It was unexpected. So what I began doing when a girl says hi to me, I ignore them and I don’t ask them out because it felt like they’re just going to flake on me. When I left Mexico and came back to New York I did the same way, if someone asks me, I reply with an emoji and I don’t ask a question in response. If you do this, some of the women will leave you but the ones that will stay though, those are the ones who really are interested.
When you text a girl you like, in the beginning, don’t ask questions at least on the first few text messages. She may think you don’t care, she’s gonna ask “Why doesn’t he care about me?” and some women will leave and those who leave, don’t dare to double text them but the ones who don’t leave, they come back different.
This whole thing of not asking questions is extremely powerful and you have to do it in the beginning. What you need to understand is, you don’t know when a woman is really interested because they hide it. You probably had a lot of women who are really interested in you and you just never found out because you were always in the frame of chasing.
So, follow the path of mastery and allow that to insulate what people throw at you. Pay less attention to them over text and even in real life. It will trigger their insecurity and if you do trigger their insecurity and she likes you, you become the enemy and they start chasing you. Women get disillusioned when you’re too easy or you pursue too easy.
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