Let me tell you why men waste your time and why you let them do it. Then, I will tell you how to fix that problem.
The most important commodity is time. One of the worst things for women is letting guys waste your time. On top of that, you end up rejecting other guys who could potentially be better.
People are selfish. They want you for themselves. It's an ego thing. That means that I want you despite whatever you're getting.
Understand that people will waste your time because of their own self-interest. They have their own desires. They may lie to you to get what they want.
They will tell you what you want to hear. If somebody says they love you, let them prove it to you.
To avoid having a guy waste your time, know what you want. Do you want a relationship or do you want to just bang on the side? What you want may change depending on who we meet. You may just want a friend with benefits but you meet a relationship kind of guy or vice versa.
After that, know what he wants. Some guys don't know what they want. Some guys are stuck with their ex who dumped them.
The problem is people don't want to give you clarity. They lose power when they do it. People tend to want to get power over you.
Once you know what you want, tell him the opposite. If you tell him what you want, he will agree with you in order to manipulate you. This allows you to act like you want something more. When somebody tells you they don't like you and then they text you a lot, you're not going to get turned off by it.
Never let a guy tell you ‘maybe’ or ‘later.’ If he says that he's not ready and you want a relationship, tell him to hit you up when he's ready. In the meantime, you will be dating other people and he can keep seeing other people.
It should be either yes or no. If he says ‘maybe,’ tell him ‘I will put you in the back burner while I go and find other people.’ Say ‘you can catch up with me when you're ready.’
People don't like being direct. You have to read between the lines. When a guy says maybe or I'm not ready yet, just keep finding other people.
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