The biggest problem why most relationships fail is because you are envisioned on the wrong thing. A lot of people envision their visual ideal relationship, but they don’t know that what really matters is the emotional idea of it. The emotional idea is easier to notice and is less deceptive than the visual idea of a perfect relationship.
Don’t make the mistake of focusing just on looks, because if you do, you’ll stray away into the realm of your ego and start looking only for momentary satisfaction. In the long run, it will deceive you because it’s not going to contribute to your long-term goals and it may have unintended consequences that produce more problems than good. You got to envision more how do you want to feel.
When I envision my ideal relationship, I never envision how it looked. The primary vision was the emotion, how would I feel, like how happy I am with a girl.
Visualize the emotional experience because sometimes what you really want doesn’t look like what you want. Don’t make the mistake of focusing on the wrong things by just focusing on how things look. That will lead you to consequences that will take years for you to recover from.
Open the possibility of infinite things by the emotional experience. Look inside and visualize exactly how you want to feel. Don’t worry about how it’s going to look. Follow up on your own preferences, see where it leads you and bring your own individuality to it.
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