I got this question from a client. She had a good thing going with a guy. He featured her on his IG, gave her gifts, and they had a lot of sex. Then, she started teasing him that she only wanted to be friends with benefits. He got upset about that and started ignoring her texts.
They talked and he said he wasn't sure if he wanted to be in a relationship with her or he just wanted to hang out.
What she could have done at this point is to say that they should take a break. He'll see other people and she'll see other people. If they meet again and they're both still single, they can get back together.
He eventually warmed up to her. He would be sweet in texts, will send her pictures, and say he missed her. However, he never made any effort to see her.
This is called breadcrumbing. What she needed to do was focus on his actions instead of his words.
After a few weeks, they met each other again and hooked up. She said she didn't want to see him only once a month. He agreed and they had a good talk while cuddling.
They texted a bit then he went silent for four days. He messaged again saying he was out of town. She told him that maybe he has girls in other states. He denied it.
He hasn't texted her for five days since that incident.
To me, it seems like he has a girlfriend. She needs to move on. M-O-V-E O-N!!
I'm not going to give her any elaborate plans. She needs to just throw out the trash.
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