Whenever you work for something and you don’t get what you initially wanted, you settle. It’s part of life, life is about settling but today we’re going to talk about signs that he settled for you.
There are signs that somebody is settling and the thing is that sometimes there’s a total pull at settling like there’s the first option, the second option, third option, fourth option, and some people can go up to the hundredth option and there’s a sign you are that option.
You can be the settlement, and I’m not going to lie, it can be demeaning, but it is such a common thing.
The first sign is disrespect. If there’s chronic dissatisfaction with his life, if he’s constantly complaining about his life, if you sense that if there’s an argument and he’s ready to walk away, it doesn’t mean he’s confident, it means deep down, he settled for you and sometimes it’s up to you to read those signs and do everyone a favor and leave, unfortunately.
The second one is lack of enthusiasm, when a guy likes you, there’s a lot of enthusiasm and when a guy doesn’t like you, there isn’t. You can sense that there’s a lack of interest, like being late on a date or splitting the bill on a date, which is okay but if you get an accumulation of these things, he’s not that interested.
The third is you notice that he’s happier around other women. Notice how he behaves with you and around other people. If you see that’s he’s happier around his female friends than he is with you, then you need to see that it means he settled for you.
The fourth sign is if he doesn’t make eye contact as much, especially in sex. If he’s not making any eye contact with you, it’s like when you don’t like someone you look away and it’s an unconscious thing.
The fifth one is there’s less sex and there’s always an excuse and the last sign is he’s cheating and what’s even worse is there’s not even remorse.
If you get these signs, just leave him. The effects on your self-esteem are not worth this and it can take years for you to recover from this and it could potentially create patterns on your behavior where it’s normal for you to chase.
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