Let's talk about when to lie and when not to lie to your guy. It's important to lie to people. Lying is one of the foundations of our society. We would not have gotten through our childhood without lies.
First of all though, there are some things you shouldn't lie about. Do not lie about who you are. Do not lie about your kids. Do not lie about your situation in life.
There’s only thing you should be lying about and that is what you want out of life. You can tell him you just want to have sex, but you really want a relationship or vice versa. This has a counterintuitive effect.
When you tell a dude that you just want to have sex, he will most likely think of you as relationship material. It's backwards! This also allows you to act how you want to. If you said that you only wanted sex, you’re free to look at him with dreamy eyes. You can tell him that you like him a lot without scaring him away. Sending mixed signals makes a guy think of you more. It's weird, but it works.
When you put a restriction by saying you don't want a relationship, it raises the value of being in a relationship with you. That's how you end up with friends with benefits who fall in love with you. Being pigeonholed makes them want to be more. They want to upgrade.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.