How do you know when he has turned the tables on you and now you're chasing. This is something that happens to a lot of women. I will tell you how to avoid the table being turned on you.
When you're the one that's being chased, you’re relaxed. You have no anxiety.
Anxiety is the first sign of you chasing. You have anxiety thinking about whether or not you're going to see him. You have anxiety about when he's going to respond to you. You're also anxious when you're around him.
There's nothing wrong with having anxiety. It's good because it means that you like him. The problem is when he doesn't like you back.
The second thing is you're the one who is initiating contact. Notice when you're always the one who says ‘Good morning.’ You're asking him to get in contact with you.
What I do to make women chase me is to stop chasing them. If you like me, my strategy is to not text you after we've had sex. Sometimes, if I'm really attracted to a girl, I will text her after two weeks. I wouldn't text her in one week.
If he's not initiating contact, don't contact him. Wait it out.
For the most part, most guys aren't as crazy as me. If I was you, I would just stop initiating contact. If he doesn't contact you anymore, you have to face reality.
The next sign you're the one chasing is that you watched the video.
Another thing is when he flakes on you. If he flakes on you and you're the one who reschedules, we have a problem. Anytime a dude flakes on you, don't be the one to reschedule. He may say ‘yes’ when you ask, but he's not going to respect you.
If he flakes on you and doesn't reschedule, bite the bullet. The goal is to get as close to reality as possible. You want to understand things as pragmatic as possible. By doing this, you allow people to tell you how they feel about you.
The problem is you guys are stubborn. You just want to hear what you want to hear. You would do some messaging gymnastics to play yourself into chasing him.
The next is you text fast and he doesn't. You're the one that's texting more. You're the one sending more LOLs and HAHAs.
You're the one who is complaining to him why he is not contacting you. You're complaining to your friends why he's not putting in the effort. You're posting in the goddamn super chats asking me how to get a guy back.
Let people tell you who they are. The key is not to live in your own fantasy. The key is to live in reality as much as possible.
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