Today we're going to be talking about how to compliment and flatter a guy the right way. You're going to learn how to compliment a guy to such a point that he's going to feel that it's sincere and very flattering. This isn't one of those compliments that feel generic.
Key to the compliment:
Give him one that is specific to a weakness of his and one that empowers him on his weak point. But in order for your compliment to work it has to feel spontaneous and a compliment that's unique to him.
So, it means that you have to be proactively looking for the right compliment by actually listening.
When you're talking to him, talk about what he's insecure about, what he lacked in his childhood and use that information to give him a compliment that heals a pain. This will make him feel more masculine.
Complimenting a guy is not about being honest but about getting the effect: the emotional reaction. So, it doesn't even have to be true, as long as he feels it's true, that's all that matters.
In addition, compliment a guy on the things he worked for rather than on the things he was born with. He's going to like you more because we take more pride on the things we worked for.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.