When I say this is how men want you to text them, we’re not talking about the male ego. Guys want you to completely give in to them and show how much you completely like them. They also want to desire you and value you, but you can’t have both.
Here are a few guidelines I want you to follow when texting guys and the first one is to not let him see how you really feel about him.
The biggest problem is how fast you text back. When you respond quickly, it communicates that you don’t have that many options.; it doesn’t matter if it’s true or not but that’s the impression that people get. Create anxiety and unpredictability by taking a few hours to respond, at least in the first month. After that, take five to ten minutes and then go back to responding after a few hours. You don’t want him to know what exactly you’re going to do next.
Above all things, never double text and don’t use LOL’s and HAHA’s every time. Also, don’t do the emojis in the beginning because you don’t want him to have a feeling of where he stands.
When you text a guy and your text messages are fast and full of emotions, you’re pretty much telling him that you like him. You want him to feel like you like him not because of your text messages but because you show up on a date. Your actions must speak louder than words. If he has a problem with the fact that you’re not giving him more attention, then it’s best if you keep moving.
This is just a very simple way of texting guys, if he flakes on you, don’t be mad and just say don’t worry about it BUT don’t text him after that.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.