One major turnoff would be hiding kids. If you have a kid, you can't be hiding that. It's important to be transparent.
Some kids don't even want a step daddy. It could be something that causes anxiety, but you have to say it. Some guys don't want to sleep with girls who have kids.
If you don't say this right away, your dude is going to feel betrayed. He's going to feel led on.
You need to let people know what they're getting into.
The next one is no hygiene. Just as you are turned off by dudes with bad hygiene, it's the same with us.
You've got to have good hygiene. If not, the guy will tell his friends.
Another turn off is being messy. I remember this messy girl that I met. We had to move shit around just to be able to lay on her bed. That's not a good look. I would not make her my girlfriend because of that.
The next one is having no life. That's a big one. If you don't have a life, the guy’s going to sense your neediness. When I say no life, you're at home a lot. When you don't have work, you just look at your phone while sending memes.
You have no purpose in life. You only live for the moment. You're always on social media. You don't do any group activities. You don't have any hobbies.
Be creative and live a fun life where you have friends. That will go into the next point about not having a life which is over dependence.
You don't want to meet a guy and then get into his life. You become him and his life. His friends become your friends. You don't want that. What's going to happen is you’ll get attached to them.
When he breaks up with you, none of his friends will stick with you. You will end up without any friends.
The friends you met through your boyfriend only had allegiance to you because you're dating their friend.
Also, don't have an Instagram account that's only about your face. This is when all your posts are selfies. That's the craziest thing on the planet. It will make you look like a narcissistic psycho.
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