Cheating has nothing to do with how beautiful, awesome or unique you are as an individual. Cheating has more to do with your perception of what you expect from the relationship and from the guy's perspective. Let me show you the reasons that men cheat and the cause of it.
One of the reasons why men cheat is because a lot of women have self-fulfilling prophecies. Sometimes women have a certain belief about what will happen in a relationship that it ends up happening. When they think their guy or boyfriend is cheating on them, they send out vibes that cause people to depart from them. They begin questioning their actions and it causes men to want to create some distance from them.
Another reason is low self-esteem. Having low self-esteem also attracts guys who are into cheating.
The third one is the lack of responsibility in making the relationship good. Rather than complaining about why the sex sucks or why your relationship sucks, take some action and do your part. Don't expect the guy to want to fuck you all on its own. Don't expect the guy to be the main reason why you have mind-blowing sex. Learn to do your part and learn some new tricks in bed. Learn to be curious as to what will excite your guy and go the extra mile. Do what you can do.
From a man's perspective, one reason they cheat is about validation. Some men cheat because they just want validation. When they are in a relationship they get used to the validation that women give them, so what you're going to have to do is learn to give the guy space and teach him how to chase you. This will make the relationship more exciting and it causes the guy to go crazy for you.
Another reason is that there's no love. Sometimes you wake up and you don't love the person. It's that simple.
The need for variety is also one of the reasons because no matter how hot you are, men want variety. They want a different body type and they want something else. Is it fucked up? Yeah, but that's just how it is. Some guys are like this and luckily, some guys aren't.
Another reason is excitement. Some men just look for excitement in an affair.
The last reason I can give you why men cheat is the opportunity. Sometimes it's hard to say no when it's too easy. When you know you won't get caught and it's only a one-time thing, saying no becomes extremely difficult.
When guys cheat, a lot of times, it's not personal. It's just that they're wired like that. It is what it is, unfortunately. Also, I forgot that another reason this happens is that you tolerate it. When a woman chooses to put up with it that's another reason why guys continue to do so because they aren't being punished for their actions.
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