I'm going to be critiquing bad dating advice for you. This is from an article I read called ‘10 ways to make a man fall in love with you.’
The article says you don't need to change anything. There is no need for you to remove those needy vibes. You don't have to go to the gym. You don't need to improve your finances. I don’t think this should be the case. You should continually be improving yourself.
Dress attractively. Men are visual. Notice when he keeps stealing glances at your attire. It doesn't stop there. When he notices other men looking at you, he gets even more attracted to you. (I agree with this one.)
Be pleasant and smile often. Men can't resist a cute smile. If you can be pleasant and warm, he will love you for it. (He won't necessarily love you for smiling. He will like you, he will lust after you, but he won't love you. Don't smile too much, especially in the beginning. Be a little hard to please.) Laugh at his jokes even if you’ve heard them before. (No, that doesn’t work. If his jokes suck, don't laugh. You don't have to give him a complimentary laugh like he's your cousin doing a stand-up. If he's not funny, he's going to have to learn that he's not funny.)
Don’t be rude. Men are completely put off with rude and arrogant women. (I agree with that. Men don't like you being rude, but they will still try to bang you).
Connect with him intellectually. Flirty and no seriousness can be a little boring after a while. On your dates together, try to connect with him intellectually every now and then. Speak to him about his career, his aspirations, and his ambitions. (I don't agree with this. What if you're not intelligent? Let's be honest, some of you guys just can't hold an intellectual conversation. Be yourself. If you're not a person who can hold an intelligent conversation, it is what it is. There's nothing wrong with that. You can start reading a book every now and then. Generally, when we try to have an intellectual conversation, it doesn't work out so don’t try.)
Work on your eye contact. It's been seen that romantic eye contact can make two people fall in love with each other. The next time you're having a conversation with him, stare deeply into his eyes. (I don't know about that. Sometimes the eye contact isn't there. You can't force that. All of this advice has been superficial, so far.)
Lingering soft touches. If there's ever a way of knowing how to make a man fall in love with you and be a flirty tease at the same time, this is it. Men can’t resist a lingering woman’s touch. Your touch will be incredibly exciting for the man you like and you’ll spark a romantic chemistry in no time. (I don’t know. Looks like bitch just ran out of ideas right here. I don't agree with that. We should burn this s***.)
Don't be easily available. This is tricky, but it's definitely a great way to make a man fall in love with you. When you're in love with someone, you obviously want to be with that person and spend more time with them. When you can't be with the person you like, you end up missing that person a lot more. (Now, this person is starting to make sense.)
Show off your talent. If you want to know how to make a man fall in love with you, learn to surprise him with your talent. Be it karaoke (I didn't know this is a talent), dancing, or playing a piano, give him a chance to see and admire you for the person you are. (If you do have a talent, hide it. Let him find out a month or two after knowing you or tell him after three or four dates.)
Don’t always agree with him. Compatibility is the great essence of a happy relationship, but you don't always have to accept what the guy says or does. Sometimes, a minor disagreement can catch him off guard, but it will make him respect your opinion a lot more. (I'm starting to like this dude. He’s giving decent advice now. )
Don't let him know you're falling in love. A man loves the chase. They take time to fall in love, but when they do, they fall hard. (This dude is redeeming himself. I agree with that.)
Some of this advice was decent, but the first ones were shitty.
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