Match your interest with disinterest. Before you ask him the question ‘what are we?’ start off by backing away. Be conspicuous. When you talk to him, try to sound bored.
He will be thinking ‘what the f*** is going on?’
It's like when you hear that someone is in the hospital, they automatically become the center of your attention.
When a guy feels that he's losing you, suddenly, he's going to feel that he likes you more.
Create demand before creating the supply. He's going to want to see you more. You can then say ‘we’ve been together for a while now, what's going on?’
After that, back away for a few days. He'll be thinking ‘I thought she wanted to be in a relationship, but why isn't she texting me that much?’
This gives you the opportunity to open up and show him interest while maintaining your value. It's very manipulative, but it's smart.
You want some things to be done a certain way. Manipulation is only a problem if you have bad intentions.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.