Why would men cheat on good women? That's a question that a lot of women ask. You guys are saying that there's no way that a guy with cheat on a woman who treats him well.
I will tell you why they cheat on the good women and why they don't cheat on the bad ones. It's a little ironic right?
I remember the first girl I was dating. She was really hot, but she was around me so much.
It got to the point where I would look at other women who were not as attractive as her. I would want them because they were different.
The attention that she gave me when she would look at me in the eye, I didn't have that feeling when somebody would like me It felt like I was looking down at someone.
Her love for me felt cheap because it became so available.
What happens to your validation is that when you give so much of it, it becomes worthless. It becomes too much and the other person would want to look for something new.
The validation didn't make him feel as good anymore.
What men want is not a possession. They want to want to possess you. The act of wanting means that they don't have you and that is the fine line.
Ladies want that sense of unity where you both know how much you guys love each other. You want to be able to look into his eyes and know that he knows that you love him. You know that he knows that you know. This is the magical moment in movies that you want. However, it only works from time to time.
When you're a good woman, you're essentially fitting the bill of the wife whose ready to have kids.
The problem is that it devalues your attention. You automatically become too familiar. It's f***** up, but you have to play that mind game. The brain just gets bored when it achieves something.
The most important prevention is picking the right guy. After that it's all about you focusing on your life and making it your number one priority.
It's difficult to do that if you're depressed or you haven't gotten over somebody. You have to heal. If you don't, you could end up falling for somebody you don't normally fall for and who doesn't love you back. After being cheated on you might be so sensitive that you would react.
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