I have recently discussed this with a client. It is not about changing your personality. You have to keep people wondering whether or not you still like them. That's what makes people continually chase you.
When they feel that they don't have everything from you, they will continue to work more.
There are two factors: your neediness, and natural chemistry.
When you have a natural chemistry, you don't have to apply any of my tactics. Things will just work out on their own. If you really have chemistry and you disappear for a day or two here and there, people will start to panic.
It's not about applying my tactics and they will work. It's about applying it to the right person. When you find that right person, it's like putting a little ember into gasoline. It will suddenly explode.
It's not about you not finding someone to love. It's about you being able to wait and be patient. Your responsibility is not to f*** it up.
Don’t do things out of impatience or a desire to reach an outcome. When you don't put your hand on a problem, it naturally heals itself.
Don't just send positive messages. What you need to do is send mixed signals.
After getting a text message, you can wait a few hours before sending a reply. Afterwards, wait about 5 minutes before replying to each text message. Do this most of the time. Sometimes girls will complain that they waited a day before a guy sent her a reply, but they're not mad because the next day he sent her a lot of messages.
Vary your response times. Just make sure that he doesn't notice a pattern.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.