Signs of disrespect can be very subtle. There are instances that make you ask questions like 'did you just disrespect me?' or 'am I supposed to be offended right now?'
When you get disrespected and you don't respond, people take note. It encourages them to do it more because there are no consequences for disrespecting you.
Here are some of the signs of disrespect.
Being willing to walk away. When somebody is not emotionally invested with you, they don't feel the need to respect you. When somebody doesn't care about you anymore, they are going to start being late on dates. The most subtle sign that a person will disrespect you in the future is when he doesn't value your company - when they can live without you. This is when he's willing to walk away. How do you know that? It's when you break up with him and he says ‘okay.’
Cancelling dates at the last minute. There is nothing wrong with cancelling dates, but there's something wrong with doing it in the last minute or, even worse, they don't even tell you. When somebody cancels dates consistently on you, they don't care whether or not you will get mad. You know this because when you meet a guy and you don't give a f*** about him you would cancel on dates, like, one hour prior to it. That's a sign of disrespect when people are flakey on you. You may not notice this because they would apologize. They will say words that are contrary to their actions.
Talking about other women. When a guy doesn't respect you, you have to break up with him. Seeing these signs is like seeing smoke when there is a fire. In connection to this, he is checking out other women in front of you. A guy who respects you will be surreptitious about what he's doing. He won't make it obvious that he's checking out other women.
Being friends with his ex. If he's friends with his ex, then he's playing you for a goddamn fool. Letting him do that is the stupidest thing on the planet. I don't let my women do that to me.
Threatening to leave you all the time. Another thing is when he keeps breaking up with you and then coming back. You're probably letting him do this because of your ego. You have to think long-term. Short-term, this is going to hurt. Long-term, how much more pain will you be in. The pain of losing a guy short-term doesn't compare to the cumulative pain of keeping him around. The instant pain of letting someone go is sharp and quick. The pain of not being over someone and trying to get them back is long and dull. It's better to take the quick vaccine than suffer the consequences.
You don't have to be in these relationships. All you have to do is filter guys. Watch out for red flags. Look red flags and be objective. This is how you find the best candidate. You cannot stick with guys who are semi-good.
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