If you do this as a woman, you're going to end up alone. There is such a thing as having standards. I told you to have things that you would accept and things that you wouldn't. You also need some things that you are willing to compromise with.
I'm not asking you to lower your standards. I'm just saying that you should be realistic.
There's a part of human nature called covetousness where humans naturally want more. When they get something, they focus on its flaws and look for something that doesn't have those flaws.
You might not initially realize that you made a mistake. After time passes and you're no longer emotionally invested in the outcome, you might realize that you did not do the right thing.
To change your reality, you must know the true nature of your reality. What you should have is deep awareness of your nature. You must know the parts in you that distort reality.
Notice the productive and unproductive parts of your nature. Once you know them, learn to have conscious control over them. Don't waste your time trying to do things outside of your environment.
Your nature always say ‘I want more.’ Your nature will never be satisfied with what you have. As a result, when you have what you want, you will be wondering if there is something better.
You have to try to find a middle ground where you have things that you won't accept and things that you can live with.
You have to know what's out there. Sometimes you find a great guy but because your standards are so high and unrealistic, you will just end up alone.
You will also have to adjust your taste as you age.
I get when coaches tell you you're an amazing catch but some of you guys are just not a good catch.
That's the truth. it's not that you guys suck but that you just haven't worked on yourselves. You have too many emotions you haven’t processed. The reason why you're single might be you.
Work on being a good catch.
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