A client says that she is probably either going to dump her boyfriend or she's going to be dumped by him.
If ever you get to a point like this, you should go and dump your guy. Always go first.
The guy, who is her friend with benefits, got jealous when she started dating other guys. She said her ultimate goal is marriage. After this, they had lesser contact. She wanted to see him but he said he’s busy and will see if something can be worked out.
He also accused her of stalking him and she got mad about that.
She is clearly accepting crumbs from him. She needs to stop talking to him. This is not going to go anywhere. Don't ask me how to deal with disrespect.
It's over. She's been hard headed. She doesn't want to pay attention.
She's going to have to wake up sometime. I'm hoping that me telling her this would get through her head. She will probably not follow my advice and that’s okay.
If you’re like this, pay attention to your nature. Notice how you justify his behavior. Notice what goes on in your head that causes you to forgive him consistently. Pay attention to that and know yourself. Knowing yourself is one of the only things in life that is an end in and of itself.
Since you're not going to leave him, just observe how you deal with this. Observe how you justify this and hopefully you can learn from this so that you don't do this ever again.
Most likely you're not going to listen to me and it's ok. It's human nature. I understand.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.