So today, we're going to be answering a question about what to do when No Contact Backfires. A lot of the time, when people are using no contact, they are shitting their pants while doing it. The thing is it's not that no contact doesn't work but no contact only works at certain circumstances. There has to be a logical reason for it, you can't just throw no-contact at him like he's nothing.
Usually when people take you for granted is because you're too available, too happy, too pleasing and you don't show negative emotion. You only show negative emotions through passive-aggression. That's what happens when people take you for granted, you try to please by pleasing. The people who you take for granted are those who give you the most without expecting anything in return. The reason you do this is you believe that's how you get love, through giving unconditional love. That's how it is but we all know that's bull. The only people who gave us unconditional love are our parents and we took them for granted.
When you guys stop talking, you may be feeling neglected and that he's not appreciating you. You're thinking your plan backfired so rather than changing up the plan, we know what happens when you're in love; you're insane. Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result. You find a way to text him.
If you find a way to text him, it seems you're not going to learn the easy way and it seems that you're not going to learn until somebody breaks your heart. You're going to learn the hard way. He disrespected you so much, aren't you angry?
No contact is not going to work if you submitted yourself to him and you came back. No contact does not work by you breaking it.
Do everything that you believe will work, text him or say you saw him and notice his reaction. You do know he's making fun of you, right? You are in the weakest position any woman can be. Being with a man who dumped them and asking to return.
No contact works when you or the other person breaks up but you don't contact them anymore. If they choose to contact you, take a day to respond. Take multiple breaks. If you're doing no contact and they come back to you, they don't just come back. They come back and bring presents, they come back and pay a price.
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