Why do men lose interest after sex? This is one of those things where correlation does not equal causation. Sex is not necessarily the determining factor why a guy lost interest.
Guys are initially attracted to a woman's physical features. When this happens, emotions are also involved. This is what makes the dude think that he likes you. This is especially true for younger guys.
When you want to have sex with someone, you don't necessarily know if you like them. How would you know if you really like someone? That would be through having sex. After sex, see if the person stays or leaves.
The reason he lost interest is that he realized he doesn't really like you that much.
Sometimes people think that they like you although in reality they are just wrapped up in emotion.
When you've never been validated and you have a guy who’s sort of paying attention, his validation could be so strong that you can't think rationally. You'll sort of assume he likes you, but in reality, he doesn't care. Even though you see he doesn't care, you'll find an excuse about why he doesn't care. This excuse gives you permission to continue chasing.
You think he's not texting you because he's probably depressed. He's not really depressed. He just doesn't like you that much.
When you don't like people, you're able to see that very clearly. When you like them, you're blind. You become Ray Charles and not see s***.
Don't think of sex as something that will solve all your problems. It is a big deal, but it's not that big of a deal.
You may not believe what I'm about to say because I'm a guy, but the sooner you get to sex, the sooner you’ll know if he really likes you or not.
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