Let me tell you about something that might disappoint you, this is something I believe about soul mates. It's all bullshit.
Humans created spirituality and religion to separate us from animals. We created it to claim and give purpose to things.
When you say soulmate, it feels as though you're spiritually linked. It feels nice and good and feels like destiny but here's the thing, all of it is just an illusion. My perspective on soul mates might be pessimistic according to society, but it's realistic.
To me, there's no such thing as having a soul mate for the simple fact that relationships rarely last a lifetime. Even if they do, you might find some skeletons in the closet.
Why do I say this? It's because I want women to realize that what's really going on is that we've been conditioned to believe that we need this or that to be happy. When the facts show that the things we think make us happy are the same things that bring misery and suffering. Just look around and you'll see what I mean.
What's my alternative? Simple, find yourself. You are your true soul mate. No one is going to make you happy. Not me. Not your mom. Not your wife. NO ONE. In fact, people will bring more misery than happiness. So rather than using them for happiness, just enjoy them for who they are. Don't place unrealistic expectations. Have compassion and leave room for error, we're humans a the end of the day.
There's no such thing as destiny. We create our own destinies.
List out the traits in a partner that you want and traits that you don't want and don't settle. Don't let emotions fog your vision. Stick to your standards and everything else will follow.
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