Today we're talking about the 10 guys you should watch out for and possibly avoid. I'm not talking about the guys your mom warned you about, these are the guys that usually leads to destructive relationships.
The first one is the Suffocator, this is the one who doesn't give you space. When you see a guy who gets close too fast and gets very intimate and reveals secrets about himself too early, better watch out for that. It's not a normal way of attachment. Watch out for these signs especially in the beginning.
The second one is the Doorman, he's the one that becomes you or embodies you. They lose their identity in their partner by trying to find happiness so much that they look outside themselves.
The third one is the Cocky Guy, he's the one that assumes he already has you.
The fourth one is the Demoralizer, the one that has certain moral standards, forces it on people and judges people based on that standards. They will start criticizing you and lower your self-esteem.
The fifth one is the Cheap Guy, he doesn't like taking risks. When you're with a guy like this, you'll always be limited to the things you could try because he'll always think about the money rather than the experience.
The sixth one is the Bumbler, he's the one always seeking validation and always get to relationship to relationship.
The seventh is the Talker, he talks too much and believes that what he has to say is more important than the other person.. It can be an indication of conversation narcissism. When he's not willing to listen and has a lot of opinions on everything, better watch out.
The eight is the Reactor, he's the one who's overly sensitive, reacts on everything and gets offended easily.
The ninth is the Bum, he doesn't pay attention to you and the things you like. They can be self-absorbed and they don't have the self-awareness to notice how they come across.
The last one is the Hopeless Romantic, they look for an idea of fantasy but in reality, they look for it so much that they're really unhappy with themselves. You'll know them by their short-term relationships and the pain that lingers on in their past. They love romanticism and they change you to fit their ideal. They are disillusioned with the reality of love that doesn't make sense.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.