Chemistry does not equal compatibility. Why is that? The hardest things to accept is that sometimes when you feel chemistry, it doesn't necessarily mean that the other person feels the same way.
You might meet someone whom you have great chemistry with. However, he’s in a relationship and so are you. It's not a compatible setup.
You guys could have perfect chemistry, but you're far away from each other. You’ll barely get to see each other. You guys like each other, but you’re wasting your time.
Compatibility beats all things.
I like my homie. We have great chemistry, but we’re both dudes.
There are times when a girl has great chemistry with a dude, but he is not at a stage where he's ready to be in a relationship. Sometimes, it's the other way around.
You might have a dude who is 20 years old, but she's 15.
Essentially, you have to be realistic. You might know a dude who you really get along with but he is the ex boyfriend of one of your friends. Just because you feel that chemistry doesn't give you the excuse to move forward with it.
This is one of the hardest things to accept. You feel like it's really difficult for you to find someone you like. When you do, you want to make it work, but it's not all about chemistry. It's difficult to understand because your emotions are involved.
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