How do you show interest to a guy without pushing him away? It's simple. Just be there. Some girls think that you have to let a guy know through your words that you like him. The only thing that’s necessary for you to show your interest is your presence. It's just the fact that you are there. When you go out on dates, you show up on time.
When he texts you, you text him back. You’re there for him when he is feeling bad.
It's not you telling him that you miss him. It's you hitting him back when he's in the city.
Stop being too emotionally expressive when you're with a guy. That's what fucks you up. When you're with a guy, you always tell him ‘I miss you,’ ‘hey there, how are you?‘
You think that that's what you're supposed to do. What's happening is that you're just being selfish. You're doing it because you can't help yourself. You feel insecure that if you don't tell him that, he won't know that you like him.
All you need to do is just be there. Let him interpret you. Don't give him the answers.
Don't tell him the ending of the movie. Let him watch the movie.
Relax. Stop trying to be best friends. Don't speed up the process. Let nature and time do the work. If he likes you, he is going to stay.
Look at the text messages you've been sending to guys. You might not be leaving any mystery. He's not thinking ‘does she like me or not?’ He already knows the answer.
What makes people like you more is that repetitive thought of how you feel about them.
People want their imagination to be played with. The greatest movies are the ones that highly engaged the imagination of their audience.
The key to showing a guy that you like him is to always be there for him.
When you do show interest, always balance it with a hint of coldness.
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