You have to hurt his ego. That's the untold truth about this.
The woman who guys remember the most is the one who made them feel insignificant. That's the woman who the guy will return to - the one who hurt their ego. She's the one who made him feel like a fool. She's the one who made him feel like s**t.
Think back to the guys you can't get over with. They're the ones who hurt your ego. You might think that hurting someone's ego makes them never want to forgive you. In fact, it makes them never forget you. They may resent the fact that you hurt them, but they will never forget you. In fact, they will like you.
The problem is that when you make somebody like you through hurting their ego, there is something bad that could happen. They might want to get back with you just to get revenge. They might want to get back with you so that they can feel good about themselves. Then, they will lose interest as soon as you open up.
That doesn't mean that the strategy doesn't work. If it was genuine, they're going to stay. It does seem shitty that in order to get a guy to like you, you have to make them feel insignificant.
People who are not over their exes are people who are hurt. It takes a lot of effort to forget somebody who hurt your ego. You think that if you cheated on them, they will lose interest. Actually, no. I'm not asking you to cheat on them. I just said that to prove the concept.
If you see yourself as someone who's super nice and you pride yourself with never having had an argument with your man, you're missing out.
Whenever you show anger or any negative emotion, it makes the person like you more. That's how twisted people are. They will actually like you more when you hurt them.
If you had a friend and you never had a moment where you snapped at each other, you guys are not really friends yet. Real friends argue with each other.
Arguments and conflict can either make a person like you more or push him away.
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