A client of mine texted with a guy for 3 to 4 days and then asked her to hang out.
They hung out and he kept saying that he wanted to see her again. When she left, he said ‘text me soon.’
It's best that you tell a guy to text you. He should be the one initiating everything.
The guy told her that he had fun. She said that he hasn't texted for 2 days since then.
It's only been 2 days, so there's really nothing to worry about. This tells me that she's kind of inexperienced with this and she has some emotional dependence.
Know that not everything that shines is gold. People may treat you well not because they like you, but because they don't want you to feel bad.
Whenever you go out on a date, always tell the guy ‘hey, text me some other time.’ Never text a guy after a date. You don't need to tell him that you had a good time. Doing this will just validate him.
If he texts you that he had a great time, say ‘I'm glad that you had a great time.’
If he doesn't text you after the first date, you'll never hear from him again. It's as simple as that. Put more weight on what he does after the date compared to what he did during the date.
I don't think he ghosted on her - yet. She needs to relax. If he doesn't get in touch anymore then it's over. Move on and keep seeing people.
Every dude that really likes a girl will text her eventually. If he doesn't chase, then you're not chasing.
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