If you want to catch a guy's attention, start with low investment. Like one of his photos on social media. The next few days, you can like 2 or 3 more. Afterwards, comment on his stories. Then, send a message like ‘hey, I thought I saw you here. Was that you?’
Be sure not to ask him out. You don't need to follow him. Just like his photos.
All that you need to do is put yourself out there. You cannot force the sale. You have to let him do all the work.
Put yourself in front of him. If he doesn't make a move, take that as a sign that he doesn't like you. Don't look more into it.
Also, just because he asked you out doesn't mean he's your boyfriend. Keep that in mind.
If your Instagram pictures are old then update them. Guys are visual. You’ve got to hook up your Instagram. Show what your mama gave you. Don't just say ‘oh, I'm not in shape.’ Get in shape.
Get on his radar first. You can’t take too many steps if you haven't caught his attention.
You'll put yourself in front of him, but you're not going to make the first move.
There is no need to worry about what you should talk to him about. Just get him to pay attention to you. Trust that things will flow naturally. Don't force it.
You know you're trying to be cool when there's an awkward silence and you want to fill it up. It's ok to be boring as a woman. You don't have to try. Just be yourself.
The only effort you have to make is putting yourself out there.
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