The way I will tell you guys how to get dudes to buy you things is the same way I get girls to commit a little bit more. People buy you things to get an emotion out of you. They buy you things to make you feel happy. Sometimes, they buy you things because they f***** up. People might want to make you feel better.
They feel that if they don't buy you things, you're going to lose interest.
Here's what you need to do. Find an excuse to get into a fight with him. Let's say that he's late for a date. He might say ‘I'm sorry. I'm going to be 20 minutes late.’ You can say ‘well, if you're going to be 20 minutes late then you’re getting the first drink. I don't like waiting for people.’
90% of the time, they will get the first drink. If they don't, then they were not really interested in the first place. If they’re broke, you can say ‘okay, just get the tip.’
Let's say he canceled a date with you. Use that excuse. Say ’hey look, I don't like the way you cancelled the date. How are you going to make it up?’ ‘I'm not going to see you unless you make it up. How about this. How about you buy me that...’
Your request has to depend on how much he earns. Don’t ask for an iPhone when a dude works at Walmart. Also consider how much commitment you guys have.
You have to amp it up so start slowly. Start at a 99 cent store. Start with him buying you dinner. Start with him buying you this and that.
Find any excuse to argue and make up a fight. You can even be mad at him by saying ’hey, I don't like the way you talked to that girl. I don't like the way you do that. Lately, you've not shown me the attention I want. I don't like the way things are going. How are you going to make it up?’
For some guys, it may not work.
Anyway, this is what you do. Whenever you get into an argument, overreact and say that you’re mad. Say ‘I'm mad.’
When you're mad at someone, they would feel bad and want to make you feel better. It's as simple as that.
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