The most important thing that you have to understand in making a guy chase is simple: I can replace your ass. You have to be willing to walk away. When you love someone, you're not thinking rationally. You're not looking at their flaws.
You need to write down a list of things that you will and will not accept with men. For me, I don't like it when a girl suddenly disappears. I also don't like it when people are late, although that one is not a deal breaker.
Also have some mental strikes. If a guy does something a certain number of times, then you will do something about it.
You already plan how to react. You won't be in a situation where you love him so you will give him a pass.
Never fixate on a static perception of someone. Just because someone is like this today, doesn't mean they’re always going to be that way. People progress and change as life goes on. They are one way at the beginning of the relationship, but then they change as the relationship progresses. What tends to happen is that you'll get to see their real nature.
Be clear about what you will not tolerate. Some people tend to say that they don't tolerate cheating. However, when they’re in love with somebody and they get cheated on, they would forgive the guy. They were influenced by their emotion.
Simply writing things down will cause you to make better decisions. When somebody cheats on you, you'll be very emotional. You won't be able to think logically.
You have to write down something that will be the anchor for your logic. Even if you continue with that dude, you'll still know what you're getting yourself into. You can see your rules and you clearly know if you broke them.
This is not a tactic. It's a mentality. You're saying that ‘I'm with you, but if you f*** with me, I will let you go.’ You will be communicating that attitude through subcommunication.
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