Today, we're going to talk about how to make a guy need you. This is how you tap on to a man's unconscious and how to bring out the pain and use it as leverage to make him obsessed with you.
This is a 3 step process you can use:
1. Create comfort, get to know them and let them feel comfortable around you. You can do this by opening up and staying relevant (sending him random photos, once in a while make it provocative slowly escalating it).
2. Inflict pain. Suddenly change and criticize them about something that's accurate and hits a nerve.
This will make them feel a mix of emotions for you inside. This will make the person doubt or suddenly make him wait for a text after developing a rhythm.
Remember the fear of loss is normal. Make him jealous and then comfort him with affection afterward.
Insinuate an inadequacy or uncertainty indirectly.
Compare them to someone else who's better than them, or make them feel like their life isn't as good in comparison to someone else or to their actual dreams. Make them feel torn apart within themselves.
Promise to fulfill a fear and bring out that fear openly and then comfort him.
3. Suddenly become warm and caring. Since they were made to feel vulnerable, they'll get closer and accept you.
The key is to pick at a wound that's real. Bring his unconscious or semiconscious doubts and fears into full awareness.
How to do it?
These sudden jabs create the space for you to fill once you create space and bring warmth. But you must first create the anxiety and doubt beforehand.
This works because everyone has self-doubt, that's the ego. Don't be fooled by the confident mascarade that people put on. Bring out their inner doubt. It's there. Because before they love you, they must first check within if you fill a need and the more obvious the need, the better chance of getting some pussy! You show a mirror to reflect on how empty they are.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.