The one thing about being a guy in this world is that we're not judged as much. We have this freedom to do whatever we want and we're not going to be judged by it.
Women walk more on societal eggshells. They can find a husband but it better not be for money. The people who say these are usually insecure people. These are the people who are just worried about other people's problems.
Men and women have different priorities when it comes to picking a partner. Men look for women who can incubate their kids. They pay attention to a girl's looks to see if they’re a good fit to have a kid with.
For women, the main concern is whether or not a guy can provide for them. People don't like that because it makes dating Machiavellian in nature. At the end of the day, that's what it is. Women look for a guy who has status. Women look for a guy who has money.
The problem is that if he is just a provider, the woman will eventually get tired of him sexually. She needs to let go of that sexual energy somehow. What happens is that a girl would then find an alpha male on the side. They'll find a guy they can have sex with who doesn't demand anything from them. My take on gold diggers is that it's just human nature.
Ignore people who judge you. It's natural for women to go for a guy who has status.
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