My client has been with her boyfriend for three months now. She's been very loyal to him. She then got approached by a young doctor who is married with four kids. She figured that if she ignored him, he would give up hitting on her.
When he saw her drinking some booster juice, he asked her out to drink some booster juice some other time. She felt harassed and got turned off. She didn't say yes because she wasn't interested in cheating.
Weeks went by and he never brought up the booster juice date again. She got fed up with him and went to the booster juice herself. She then drank it in front of him.
He asked her if he did something wrong. She forgave him and got him a sample of the juice to entice him to think of a date. That date never came.
He still did things that turned her on and made her question if she wanted to be his lover. She caught feelings for him, but tried to be loyal to her new husband.
Years went by but the booster juice date still never happened. One time, he asked her out loudly in the presence of another doctor. She agreed but he flaked again.
Months went by and she brought up the Caribbean date. He said that he remembers that he asked her. He’s surprised that she still remembers. He asked her why she was bringing it up. She asked when she wants to go. He said that she's avoiding the question. She said he was the one avoiding the question.
They have been emailing and he does respond to her right away. When she texted him to congratulate him for a promotion, he didn't reply.
The problem here is that she is chasing him.
Before he had to go away to Washington DC, he asked her if she was ok that he will be going away. She really didn't want to admit that she wanted to be with him because she didn't want to be rejected. She can't tell if he wants her. He jokes about getting her as his personal assistant.
She wants to live a normal life with her husband, but this doctor made her catch feelings. She's just curious about why this doctor is doing this with her.
She needs to just end this. He is clearly playing games with her. If anyone plays games with me, I'm out. This guy has been playing games with her for years now!
It sounds like her husband is being a little bitch who is dealing with her bullshit. Any time a woman looks to somebody else for attention, it means that her man is acting like a little bitch. There's nothing she could do about that. That's why she was out looking for another guy. Clearly, her husband is not fulfilling her.
Finally, she needs to stop texting, calling, and validating the doctor.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.