You're gonna think that these tactics don't work because you're afraid that they will make you lose the guy. You can know intellectually that you shouldn’t chase a guy. You would give this advice to your friends. However, it's difficult for you to apply it to yourself. That is because you haven't linked massive pain with chasing. You haven't learned your lesson from experience. You haven't found out from experience that if you chase a guy, you're going to lose him.
I don't chase women anymore because I think back to the women I chased and lost. There's real pain. I've lost. I don't chase anymore because I know there is emotional pain linked to chasing.
You guys will never learn your lesson until you’ve lost the love of your life and get a chance to date another person. You have to link massive pain to a behavior in order to learn. You have to emotionally understand that you cannot chase a guy.
Whenever you chase, a part of you would then say ‘don't do it.' 'Remember last time.’ You have to have this on your mind.
From my experience, guys learn tactics to attract women. The problem is that they never learned their lesson. They always think short-term. They want the pussy now. When you think long-term, you remember the times you f***** up.
This is kind of like getting a second chance in life. You know your health is important. Until you lose your health, you don't appreciate it as much. You've always been told to value your health, but it was only when you lost it that you truly valued it.
Unless you visualize it perfectly, you won’t have an emotional connection that allows you to appreciate it.
That's why children don't appreciate their youth. It's only when you get older that you value it.
A lot of this shit that I'm telling you is not going to get through to your head. You may have to reach rock bottom first. You keep doing your own thing until, finally, there's nowhere to go but up.
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