Focus on his actions and not his words. Why? That's how passive aggressive people and narcissistic people will try to convince you that you're wrong. He is telling you ‘I love you’ but he's not hanging out with you.
Words are smoke screens. People use words to distract you from their actions. Words really don't mean s***.
The world that we live in uses promises and fantasies against you to lower your guard. Nothing lowers people’s defenses than hearing what they want to hear. They’re hearing about themselves. They’re hearing the fantasies that they've always wanted.
The words that people are using are just said to lower your defenses. Notice if there's a conflict between a man's words and his actions.
Children are easy to distract because they focus on words. For example, I haven't seen a girl for two weeks and then she messages me saying ‘I miss you.’ Does she really miss me when she hasn't seen me for 2 weeks? Show me with your actions.
Somebody says ‘I want to hang out with you’ but doesn't show up when it comes time to hang out. Somebody might say ‘I like you’ but their actions don't show it. They're just using that to bait you. They're using that to distract you. They're using that to f*** with you and lie to you.
You're working with somebody and they say they're going to do something but they didn't do it. They say they're sorry for being late but they keep doing it. The reason why you don't have a clear picture is that there's a smoke screen. That smoke screen is their words.
Focus on their actions and you're going to see the real picture.
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