The simplest way to become more attractive without working on yourself is to invoke jealousy in a person. When guys see that other guys want you, they’ll want you more.
Jealousy isn’t bad in little doses. Just don’t use this on guys who have a history of physical abuse or are too controlling. This is fine for normal guys.
Guys can’t endure the fact that another guy is more desirable than them. You can make a guy jealous, but make your personality the main reason that attracts the guy.
According to the principle of social proof, you’ll want something more when other people also want it.
Here’s what you can do:
1. Make him subtly aware that there’s another guy around you. A subtle way is to add someone on social media. To do this, you can ask one of your guy friends to unfriend you then add you again. Have him interact with your posts and react to his comment instead of the others.
2. Go to a dance class. The guy will notice you dancing with others who are better than him. Seeing another guy touch you will make him jealous.
3. Go to improv. He’ll see you laughing with another guy.
4. Share a post that another guy shared.
5. Have someone do you a favor and let him know about it. Talk about someone doing your homework or any other favor.
6. Talk about a hot guy, but he’s just a friend. Talk about him having a quality that you don’t have.
7. Talk about having a crush on a guy who’s ugly.
8. Act as if you’re going to break up with him. Sit him down looking serious. Say that there’s this guy and you started talking. Then, suddenly say you’re just kidding. This gives him the emotion that he almost lost you.
9. Don’t delete photos of past relationships. Let him look at those photos.
10. Talk about his friend. Choose someone you both know and who isn’t around a lot. Say that his friend is cute and wait for his reaction. Then say that you want to hook up that friend with one of your friends.
Ask questions about his friend to give him a few seconds of doubt.
11. Talk about how you're not easy. Say that most guys are boring and they couldn’t catch your attention.
12. Having a lot of guy friends will also make you more desirable. Do activities that involve guys such as sports.
13. Be a girl known to go for good-looking or high-value guys. Guys want to be included in that group in order to validate himself.
Be sure that you have a good reputation to make this work. Make yourself known as a girl who teases.
If you fail to elicit jealousy, he’s going to lose interest. People want to feel like other people want you.
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