I made this video to help you guys understand one of the misconceptions that women have when it comes to dating men and talking to guys.
In the past, I think that there was no way that a woman could manipulate me in a way to make me like her but from what I'm seeing, it's possible.
Using this tactic actively indirectly manipulate people to move things in the chessboard without being seen and suddenly insinuating things and make people do things that they usually wouldn't do.
The number one thing you have to understand though is that it's not going to work all the time. When it doesn't work is the time you learn the most. You're able to grow more.
By putting yourself in positions to get rejected and practicing it actively, you actually grow. In the beginning, you won't see the growth but after each battle you lose, you'll grow and learn more from defeats.
Generally speaking, most likely, you're not going to get the guy, that's what tends to happen. I always say be pessimistic because happiness is a function of expectation. You got to realize that you're not always going to get him.
You might think he's rejecting you because of your looks but in reality, most of the time guys reject women because of the things that they do. It's when you do something that causes them to lose attraction, that's what usually happens.
It's not that you don't need to learn tactics, you got to first limit the behavior that's causing you to lose the guy. It's like, rather than just putting on deodorant, the first thing you need to do is take a shower. It's like having good tactics with low self-esteem, it doesn't look good. You'll fix this one part through rejection. Through observing how you react to the rejection, you'll see inside what's really you're trying to avoid.
Once you see what you're trying to avoid, it's going to be right in front of you and it can be painful at times that you're going to try to avoid it and be back again to your cocoon of insecurities. Stop focusing on the least important part which is the outcome. Have a focus on the most important part which is the process, the doing itself and the fun of it all. This way, even though you don't get the guy, you had fun. And if you have fun, you always win.
That's the point. You've got to put yourself in a situation where you're always winning and the only way for you to do that is to set the rules. The rules were not getting the guy is a failure. Change your focus and your value system.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.