Why do women find married men attractive? Understanding that will also tell you why people are attracted to those that don't want them.
When somebody is married, they try to be sneaky when texting you. When you send them a text, they may take a while to respond back. When you ask them to hang out, they're kind of busy since they're married. They can't be with you all the time. When you call them, they don't pick up that much.
When they talk to you, they tend to be mysterious and not tell you everything about themselves. They have secrets. When you get closer, they might push you away.
People are not necessarily attracted to someone just because they are married. It's because of the way that person acts.
When someone has a girlfriend, they will naturally have more women vying for their attention. It's not just the fact that he has a woman. It's the fact that he has to say no to you. It's the fact that he struggles to stay faithful. As a result, he pushes you away and that tends to hurt your ego. That makes people competitive.
That's generally why people are into other people who are taken.
When a guy has a girlfriend who validates him, he might say no to you. If he is single, you're going to lose attraction when you realize that this dude is needy.
If he loses his girlfriend, he might try to go after the girls that wanted him. However, those girls might not be attracted to him anymore because he no longer acts attractively. He is now needy and looking for someone. Back then, he was pushing you away.
Now, he's texting you faster. He is calling you. He's more available. He is not as sneaky as he used to be. He's not fun anymore.
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