A lot of women, especially when they have their own agendas, project a lot of neediness. They project them through the things that they say with the energy that's carried through their words and actions.
It's kind of having songs with good lyrics. Without the right instrumental, the song wouldn't be as good.
When you think of a song, you remember the music behind the lyrics. Your energy, your vibe, is the music within the lyrics. This is the part that people think about whenever you're not around.
Learning how to project the right vibe is important.
The difference between coming across needy and coming across confident is all in how much you give and how much you take. When you’re looking for someone to like you, you're trying to take. You're trying to get good emotions.
You try to get him to react. You try to impress him so that he would like you and then you can suck some self-esteem. You try to change certain things about your personality so you can get that validation.
Whenever you're trying to get validation, that projects neediness.
In your mind, you're asking yourself how you can get him to like you. You want to impress him and get him to notice you. Those questions produce an energy that comes across as needy.
Rather than thinking about how you can impress him, think about how you can have fun. It's like you're teasing him.
Suddenly, you are not saying things to get him to like you. You're putting out positive energy. Anything that you do will come across as cool.
It's not about what you say, but more about the emotions. The things that you say and do are going to come from a place of amusement.
This will improve your vibe. Think about how you can have fun and what it is you can say that will f*** with him.
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