There are some things that words and actions can’t do justice. The immeasurable feeling of love towards someone who you care about can sometimes fail to communicate its true essence.
The BEST thing you can do or say to show your love is simple: The Silent embrace.
Silent doesn’t mean not having anything to say, but rather, it means being there for them without the need to add anything. It means that they can find comfort in you.
Becoming the space where he could find comfort.
This comfort is felt as a motherly embrace of the person rather than the superficial way of showing love and embrace.
This means to listen without judgement, to listen without thinking of what to say next.
It means learning how to allow your man to pour his emotions unto you without fear of criticism and/or judgement.
In order to do this you have to let go of your OWN biases and expectations. This starts with embracing yourself with the space and awareness that you are.
You have to create SPACE in order to be there for him. But space won’t be felt if you’re in your head.
We discuss this in greater detail in my course.... click here.