A client of mine wants to know how to go from needy to confident.
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This client worked with a guy 3 years ago, but didn't know him then. They recently talked through Facebook, met with coffee and kissed. It felt like a thunderbolt.
They agreed to meet again in 3 weeks. Their texting got intense. They met again and had sex 3 times.
They texted again the next day, but she felt panic since their sex was unprotected. They agreed that, planning it regularly, they should make sure they're both ok.
She asked him to be friends with benefits, but he felt offended. She tried to apologize and got no response. She sent him an apology again along with a very cringy message. He never replied.
She says that she likes him, but she's willing to walk away.
The most retarded thing that people can do is to accept ‘I'm clean’ as a test result. Always have protection during sex.
If a guy doesn't respond to a text, you don't run after him apologizing. You let him be. You don't try to change people's perception of you. When you do this, you're digging a deeper hole. Stop trying to change people's perception of you.
She should have just left him alone.
She had a temporary moment of insanity. I don't know what she went through in life, but we can't do this kind of stuff. Maybe she saw a different version of love and she's confusing it with this one.
I know it hurts, but she can't be doing this. She's selling herself short. Even if he wants to come back, she shouldn't take him back.
She needs some pride. She shouldn't let this happen to her again.
The next time she's in this situation, she should just purchase a super chat or one of my $25.00 questions so I can tell her not to go psycho.
This is not going to work out. She needs to move on. It's over.
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